Now that is the question that we ask ourselves every time there's a failed relationship.
Even though it seemed that we have given everything, and almost anything just to keep our partners happy something goes horribly wrong in the relationship and you just don't understand what happened. For all of you lovers and heartbroken people out there, I feel ya'. Here are some of the reasons why people fail in a relationship:
1. Your partner is no longer happy with you.
Sometimes he or she just doesn't know how to tell you how one really feels. Because your partner doesn't one to hurt your feelings. So what's going to happen is, he's gonna get cold and you will notice that something's different about him. About the way he treats you. Therefore you are left heartbroken upon learning about his real feelings.
2. He/She is not contented.
Now this I can relate to. Sometimes we think that everything's is okay until it hits you in the head. This situation can lead your partner to CHEAT on you. He/She will look for that certain person where he/she can do some playtime Someone he/she can fool around with. Nothing too serious, he/she just wants to feel that someone else can still want him.
3. Lies
Everybody lies. But when you're in a relationship, HONESTY is very important. Because without HONESTY how can we ever TRUST our partners right? We trust that they won't hurt us, that they will remain faithful to us, and that they will tell us everything so we can fix whatever it is that needs fixing. Even if it hurts the other person it's better to just tell them upfront than telling a lie just to avoid him/her from getting hurt.
4. Change
People keep changing and growing. And sometimes that becomes the problem. When the two of you becomes total stranger while in a relationship. You suddenly want different things, and you just don't seem to be on the right page with the other. Some people can make this work, but often times this doesn't work at all.
5. He/She has fallen inlove with someone else
I know this happens in the movies, but it also happens in real life. It just happens and even you can't prevent it from happening. Whether he falls inlove with your bestfriend, with your sister, cousin or just someone you know, situations like this still occur. It's simply because they have more connection than you two. Or if you two are on a rough patch and this third person becomes the "shoulder to lean on" that's when it happens.
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These are some of the things that fails a relationship. We have to be strong for ourselves. At the end of the day, you still choose who to love. Everything'a CHOICE. So be wise enough to choose which path you want to take on.
